Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Discussion Topic 1

"When do you think is the right age for getting married". Give reasons and examples to support your opinion.

40 comments:

  1. In my opinion the right age for getting married is 28 because you have a career, you are independent and you are mature. My first reason is because you have a career and you are capable of buy your stuffs and if you divorce you can keep moving alone. My second reason is that you are independent and you do not need ask somebody if he is the right for you. My most important reason is that you are mature and you know what you are doing is right and do not need no advice. Those are all my reasons which I think the best age to get married is 28.

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  2. Alvaro.. That's a good topic!!!!

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  5. :) I've always think about that but didn't have objective ideas to support it..

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  6. I think the right age for getting married is when you have a job that can support your future family life. First, having a good job will ensure economically, your future family life. You need money to survive because getting married means independence from your parents. Next, it will help you feel secure. Human beings trust in material things. A good job will make your family or partner fill secure about the future. Finally, having a job helps you mature as a person. You need to be mature in order to get married. A job helps you face the world, face the reality and this helps you grow. In conclution, the right age for getting married is when you have a job; good enough to support your family. Because it ensures you economically, it gives you psychological support and it makes you mature.

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  7. In my opinion 30 years is the right age for getting married, they are mature, have independence and parent age. At first because at that age men and women are mature enough, they have economic supporting means and they will not be to old to enjoy will their children or child if they decide to have only one. The average people in Europe get married at this age, and they have only one or two sons or daughters; this is not casual. Even if you can not define in advance to whom you are going to fall in love with and her or his age, it would be great for both to be surrounding three decades

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  10. I believe that the best time to get married is between 25 and 29. firstly, at that age I suppose to have finished studying my career. That would give me enough time to dedicate to my family. Besides, a that age I would have enough emotional maturity to deal with a family. In fact, many divorces are due to the couples´ immaturity. Finally, I expect to have a stable job by that time. That way I would be able to afford the family needs like a house, a car, and many other expenses. To summarize, between 25 and 29 is the ideal age to getting married because I would have a master degree, emotional maturity and a god job.

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  11. Mercedes you have great reasons but I believe that 28 is too old!, because you will have your children too old.
    On my opinion the perfect age for getting married is 25 years old because at that age most people have a profession, because at that age most people are mature and because at that age most people already have a job. First because at that age most people have a profession, this is really important because they will need money to support themselves and they will need a profession to get a well paid job. Second because at that age most people had lived long enough in order to be a mature and responsible person, for example at that age most people had had enough experience to know what they like and dislike in a man or woman . Third because at that age people already have a job and they know what means to earn and spend money in a correct way, and if you get married without knowing what spending your own money is then you will have troubles. As a conclusion I would like to say that in order to get married you first need to be a mature person, you need to have a profession, and you need to have a job.

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  12. I think it's a great topic too, a little bit complicated but good anyway.

    I think 28 years old is the right age to get married
    Because a person should be mature enough to choose a couple
    Taking serious facts instead of just following fantasies
    A 28 years old person should have finished its career in the university
    So that means that person should have reached an advanced level about it’s studies goals and at that age a person should have gained enough experience in it’s profession and with this knowledge been easier to collaborate in a future family life.
    That’s why I consider been 28 years old a great age to get married.

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  13. Marineya I agree with you we have almost the same reasons!

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  14. In my opinion the best age to get married is between 30´s and 35´s. The fisrt reason is that you are more mature to take important decisions like get married. According to stadistics, the 80% of marrieges in early ages, finished in divorce. The second reason is that you will become a professional in you career, this is important to your own independency. And the last reason is that you could have some money saved becouse you will be already working and this is important if you are thinking about having babys. That is why the best age to get married is between the 30´s and 35´s.

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  16. In my opinion, The right to get married is at 30. First, at that age people become more mature. One example for this is that, we can watch on TV that some guys get married young and months later they divorce, and that is a problem related with mature. Another reason is that at the age I mentioned, in general, people have sure works. For instance, my grandfather told me that he got married at 30, and by that time he has been working in a bisness for six years, so he was in a able to get the decision of getting married. My last reason is that at that age, and with a sure work, newlyweds will have they own home. One example is that, in my aunt case, he first make built at home, and after two years of its construction, he recently got married with uncle, that is a good example to get. In conclusion, I believe that the age of 30, we can have the necessaries things to get married, and I consider it the best one.

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  17. Ericka I don't think that's the best age, I think that is too old. At that age some people can't have children(someone can), but they will looks like the grandmothers when their children has 15 o 17, and I think its better between 25 and 28.

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  18. I think that when you are 31 you are already worried about your age, at least if you are a woman, because I think men like young girls....isn't it?...I mean, younger than them....
    that means that when you are more than 30 and if you get married it is more because there was no more choice.... (?)

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  19. I think the right age to get married is after the 25 years old and I have three reasons. First, you already have experience with the love and getting married, is not only a crazy idea and after a couple of years you would not planning your divorce. Second reason, at this age you are completely mature you are no more a teenager who only want to live the freaking life, you know about responsibilities. My third reason is that you already have a profession, so you work and you can maintain your family. In conclusion I think after the 25 years old is the right age to get married because of the experience, mature, and your capacity of maintain your family.

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  20. ahhhh!!! By the way, Christian Your ideas are interesting, we agree in some reasons. Good job my friend!!!!

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  21. On my opinion the perfect age for getting married is 25 years old.First because I think that the men’s are more mature in order to married. Second I think that since 25 yeas old a lot of people go out to the university with a profession. For example, exist a lot of people married so young and is terrible because after that exist the problems of immaturity and finally because at that age a people have a job and to get married do you need to be a mature person so you need to have a good personality, a good profession and finally a good job to support your family so I would be able to afford the family needs like a house, a car, and many other things.
    In conclussion,the people have more knowledge and experience.

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  22. Christian i think you got good points, I never would have thought of including some of the point you wrote. Really interesting, thanks for sharing!


    In my opinion, the right age for getting married is after 30. First of all, before this age most of the people end their education, university, Grad school, etc. Moreover, you need to be at your work at least 3 to 5 years to save some money, so you can keep up your family. For instance, my father started working when he was 24 and he said that the company did not pay him well enough and also he mentioned that the first few years, he had to go to different places for job training and took almost 5 years to establish in one place and earn good amount of money. Finally, It said that the desire of getting married, come after when you fulfilled some other needs such as, resources , protection and other physical needs. To sum up, the right age for getting married is 30 because by that age you finish your education, you have stable job and fulfilled other desires.

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  23. Cristina I disagree with you, I think that at that age a person is not mature enough.



    I think that the right age for getting married is at 30 years old. First reason for this is that at this age you are emotionally mature to make that kind of decision. For example, when you are 30 years old all the hormones stuff has gone and you will have your mind clear to decide who you want to marry with. My second reason is that at this age you already have a stable economic situation. For example, at this age you already got a job, and you don’t have to depend on your parents, so you can form a stable family without asking your parents for money. Finally at this age women’s body is mature enough to have a baby. For example, if a woman becomes pregnant before 25 or after 35 it would be a risky pregnancy. In conclusion getting married at 30 years old is the right age because you are emotionally, economically and physically mature.

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  24. priscila my reasons are almost the same as yours totally agree with you!

    I think the right age for getting married is 25 years. My first reason is that most people at that age become professional and they will get a job soon so money will not be a problem in the couple if they get married because both will work and maintain themselves. My second reason is that at 25 years the couple will be mature enough to make that decision and they will be able to affront the consequences of getting a family. My third reason is that couples are able to have children at that age so they can make their family and be young parents that can play with them children and see them grow until they have their family. That’s all my reason why 25 is the right age for getting married.

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  25. Ester and Mercedes: I think that you are undervalue your own gender.

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  26. Tatsuya, other desires before getting married could be crazy thing, like feel free to jump from an airplane, or whatever.!

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  27. Alvaro, I really hate this topic, why did you have to pick this topic among others. imo, this is worse than religion one.

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  28. I am agree with you Tatsuya and Prisila. It is important to reach some goals before getting married.

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  29. Tatsuya your points are really good, but that age for me is too old.

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  30. I agree with you oscar, is a good age.

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  31. Priscila, I believe that maturity depends and varies on different people or culture. There is not an exactly mature age on people.

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  32. Diego, you have good examples to support your opinions that means you have clear ideas, good job.

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  33. I agree with jose

    besides, You will never be satisfied. What you have to do is to learn to love "that person"...people don't do that and becuz of that, they get divorsed even after getting married.

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  34. Ñoñasos!!!!!!!!!!!! I agree with all you.. I noticed that everybody will probably get married, and that is good... But men do not forget the lovers... jejejej

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  35. I believe that twenty years is the right age for getting married. My first reason for this is the majority of people know that they want because they already pass the most indecisive and difficult age " the adolescent". My second reason for this is people in this age already are profesional and more independient. All people work and can maintain theirselves. Finally, my most important reason for this is a person in this age can decide about his life and be sure if they want to take this step. they know that the marriage is a very importante decision in their life. In conclusion, I think that twenty five years is the most appropiate age for gettind married.

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  36. I agree with mercedes I like your reasons!! mercedes is very funny that you think in a divorce before you getting married.

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  37. I see that GIRLS WON'T have any problem with our LOVERS!!! jejeje.. there are no coments about that!!!

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  38. one more comment to read. The right age to get married is 30 for men and 25 for women.

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  39. Sorry for interrupting your course, but I think That there is no right age for getting married … it depends on lots of circumstances …. For example some of you said that it's important to get married when you have a good experience in life , good job and to be mature enough to be a parent ….etc. these circumstances differs from a person to another according to the different situations and circumstances people face in their life .
    Some people are 35 and they have little experience in life … they didn't face difficult situations or serious problems in their lives , they didn't even work in different places to gain knowledge on how to deal with different types of personalities . some people are intrapersonal and they don't have any social skills and they can't deal easily with others .
    They can ruin their marriage easily.
    You can be 25 or 28 and you are more mature and experienced than 35 year old man / woman . some young people take more responsibilities than older ones ….. it's a kind of personality and the way you were raised at home ….. it depends on many things .
    Some people get a good job when they are young , others struggle hard to get a good job and they get it when they are old ….. it depends. Some people are hard workers and other are not …. They manage to be successful when they are young .
    some young people have the experience for dealing with children , they take responsibilities seriously .... others don't have the desire to do that ..... if you have the desire to do something , you can learn it and do it in a satisfied way .
    You may be mature enough but you can't find your soul mate or vice verse …. You may be a young person and you find a person who can share you everything and you understand each other …… will you leave that person because you are still young …. ?? No , you have to take the marriage experience together and to struggle hard together to make it a successful one.
    Some of you said that , the best age for getting married is after achieving your goals …..Instead of waiting to achieve your goals alone and then to search for someone after achieving your success and you may not find that person easily …. Why don't you share the steps of your success with someone else? …. You can achieve your goals together and you may feel your success in a better way together .
    Amway, this was my opinion , I wish I have seen that blog earlier .

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